So is "good hearted man" synonymous with "nice guy". I think it might be. It seems that most also prefer a man that they perceive to be the man with the qualities they think they want no matter how false or genuine he may be. He may not even exist. So is the quest for a "good hearted man" another ploy to waste everyone's time? Not that this is the intent or even a conscious decision. However it doesn't seem to be very realistic as a target or goal for a relationship. If you're going to have something that is a prerequisite to meeting, maybe it should be real and measurable.
It would go something like "he is good hearted 20% of the time". I'll have coffee. If he is "90% of the time I'll go to third base" or if he's a jerk I'll marry him today. Lol.
Which all begs the real question I wanted to address tonight, "are jerks born or created in society?" maybe both. I believe that there is a little of both. But more are created then are born. The natural order of things is that a guy seems to have to be a jerk to get a woman to fall in love with him. Mind boggling to someone like me. So it doesn't really take that many times of having a woman tell you that she wants to be friends because she has pulled out her crystal ball and foreseen the only version of the future that can exist and knows how the whole thing is going to play out. Lol. Usually, this version leaves no room for communication and education of both individuals. A little closed minded I'd say but nonetheless it seems to be very common. So how many kicks to the curb does it take to make a jerk? Lol. Reminds me of the tootsie pop commercials from days gone by. So for you ladies, how many jerks have you created? How many of you finally grabbed a nice guy or a good hearted man? For the guys, how many of you have succumb to the pressures of dating and just not being seen and become a jerk. How many of you have held your ground and maintained who you are but still alone?
Michael McConnell
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