Triggers, Meanings and Ruts - Part 3

Ruts, well ruts are simple……especially if you ever been in one on some country back road. Lol Simply put a rut is any combination of Triggers, Meanings or just any "baggage" that we pack around unknowingly, that we continue to let control us and the decisions we make. The things that make us not only find but seek out the same types of relationships with other people, romantic, friendship, etc. We seek them out even when we know they are unpleasant. Mostly because they are familiar to us. Even when negative, familiarity makes us feel safe because it's known. The unknown continues to make most of us uncomfortable just breathing.
The thing to do is to find new things to do, new people to associate with, new people to date even. Just to broaden your horizons and get comfortable in all kinds of physical and emotional positions. Then you can pick and choose where and who you want to spend your time. It will bring about another level of peace and confidence within yourself . And yes you can keep the good things and people that you already have…….lol

So having said all of this, I wish everyone luck in pursuing their own happiness to no end. To find that place where you are in control of you, comfortable with it, giving your successes to others in testimony so they can make the same strides in their happiness as you are doing. Remember, we learn life's lessons by living it here and now. Not dwelling on the negative from our past or worrying about the "what if's" of tomorrow. All we have for sure is right now. Live it with passion, happiness, thoughtfulness, love and awareness of who you are and whom you are becoming......

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