Control......

What is it? We can have control of a material object, which is preferred. Control only seems to be a problem for me when it involves one adult person trying to control another adult person. Controlling their actions, whereabouts, activities..... Typically the person controlling is more insecure and immature than the person being controlled. Now I would have to assume that a certain percentage of the people being controlled want to be, another segment is controlled and just doesn't realize it and then there are the ones like me that absolutely won't tolerate it. Lol. I think people have free will for a reason. Control takes that away from a person through manipulation of some kind. Some are very good at it and subtle along the way. The key to not be controlled is to be aware of it and be mature enough to point it out. Do it gracefully though as not to hurt the controller. Remember they are already insecure about something and more immature than you......lol